Demanding that your child do something does not work very well. If your child follows through with the demand they usually feel resentful and powerless. Is that how you want your child to feel? Offering a choice to your child sends the message that you respect them, love them, and believe in them that they can decide on their own. It makes your child feel important and competent. That is the message we want to send!
Mary Bartusek, Parent Educator
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